Effortless

It seems to me that the word effortless is most often associated with the proverbial true love. Where everything just falls into place perfectly and there is no need to work at it. But I have found that in my life the words effortless and love do not go together like that. I have found that when you put no effort in, don't try at all then the person begins to fall for you. When you finally realize that you yourself are falling and decide to put in some effort they turn the other way. Its like when someone doesn't like you that makes you try that much harder to like them and when they do you take them for granted. Anyway the point of this email is to ask a question. Is it that to find any sort of love one must continually put in no effort? or is it just that the right person has just not yet been found?

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