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There are different ways to learn everything and anything about another person. Like a skilled poker player you can learn alot about someone through not only thier words but thier actions. Pay attention to the details...as I have said many times before "its the little things that count". Pay attention to her mood in a certain situation and what she's doing. Watch the way she uses the remote, how she is pushing the buttons, the way she is changing the channels...is she surfing, is she stopping on a certain type of show (i.e. romance), or maybe shes not paying attention to what is on. Go shopping with her...acctually take a somewhat interest in it (just try it once). Watch the way she tries on clothes, which stores she goes into, what she is tryin on...take note of some of the subtle "oh thats nice" and "I wish I had one of those" comments, these can make geat amazing gifts and show that you acctually pay attention. Take notice in the way she orders off a menu, in what her drink of choice is for the night, how loud her music is playing, how fast she is driving, what kind of books she is reading, the way her hair is done, the way she writes certain things down, the way she cooks and the way she eats, pay attention to the details. You may find out that when she seems ancy (surfing channels, in a hurry while shopping, etc etc) she may want you to desperately make a move or wants you to alteast tell her you appreciate her. When her mood seems more casual you just have to go 90 percent and she will jump all over the remaining 10 percent. Other moods and small details may give away that she is just waiting for a chance to jump you...and at the same time paying attention to detail can help you steer clear of a disaster because you will know where not to go.
All I am saying is that the little things are different for every person and its when you can pick up on anothers quirks that you will truly be at peace.

p.s. thanks to a friend I have also realized that you can't win a hand if you don't play the game. Why give up when the queen of hearts is all you really need!!

"you gotta know when to hold em and you gotta know when to fold em" - good ole kenny