Grow Up!

I am probably the wrong guy to talk about growing up but most of these lessons I have learned and I figure part of growing up is passing on your opinionated wisdom right!

1)There are times to be childish, there are times to pout and there are times to act immature. In the same respect there are times to act like an adult, there are times to suck it up and there are times to grow up and be mature.

2)You can listen to what others say and believe them or you can straight up ask the person the story concerns and get a straight up answer, rumors only become truth when the truth is never sought after.

3)If you forgive someone for something let it go. You can no longer draw on this in future discussions! Yes it may still hurt but once you give forgiveness you must complete give it otherwise it is going to build up and blow up.

4)Listen to your gut first and foremost, it usually tells the truth. It's when you start listening to others and going against that feeling in your gut that you get into the worst kind of trouble.

5)opinions are not always correct, that's why they are opinions not facts. State yours without hesitation but be prepared to hear a different one. Keep an open mind.

I am not saying that we must become a Grown up, but we must gradually learn that we are not invincible and we are not always right. Being young is about doing dumb stuff, just use your head while you do it!

(A little side note on 4...Listen to your gut not your ex-girlfriend. Who do you truly think is telling the truth!)