Wake Up!

I am going to be kind of general in this particular blog...Kelly these are the same words I have just told you for the last week and I figure if you read them (if you even read this like you say you do) it might get through to you! (also Linner your romantics blog had me at hello)!

Why people do certain things is beyond me. Why must we touch the fence with the wet paint sign on it to see if the sign is telling the truth? Why do we sometimes hit ourselves with something just to see if it is going to hurt? Why do we do it again to see if it hurt more than the first time? (and for the main focus of this blog) Why do girls go back...
If he hurt you that bad once what makes you think he won't do it again? If he could lie straight to your face for 3 months about it what makes you think he will now tell the truth? If he can cheat on you with one of your friends what makes you think he will stop cheating? If he treats you with a total lack of respect in public, and most of the time in private, what has he now done to change?
He is an ass, for this. Most girls ignore warning signs, the distance of some days, the sudden independance needed, the blow ups over nothing...girls overlook these because they are afraid of something...being alone maybe??

If all of you listen to just one thing I say ever make it be this. There are nice guys! If a guy is treating you like I have just descirbed do not hold on thinking it's the best you can do because there is a nice guy right there in last place, at the end of the line with a smile on, waiting for a girl to give everything she deserves...they may be hard to find, but trust me just cause they're not in first place doesn't mean they aren't in the race!

Sometimes this guy being the asshole is still an alright guy as long as you are not dating him, he may even be freinds with others. So then why as girl when you are laying your poor me I didn't see this comming (this being him cheating) on one of his friends to get sympathy and you are given a response such as "well yeah he's an ass but he always has been, you knew that" or "your better off" and things of this nature, why do you run back to this ass and try and make up things to make the person trying to console you look like a total ass. This person is doing nothing but trying to be sympathetic with you in this terrible situation and then you do this and try and turn 2 friends against one another so that maybe this will be the situation at hand and you can just plain ole forget him cheating and you can go back to being convientently oblivious to any of these happenings!

"If it smells like chicken, looks like chicken and tastes like chicken then by golly its probably chicken"

(sorry this one was a little personal but needed to get this out!)