The Gra(y) Jay blog

well you can call me gra(y)
and you can call me Jay
and you can call me gra(y) jay...

well well well it has been far far too long...I am not making excuses for it but here goes my excuses:
1) I have been house sittin at a house that is straight outta the 60's so if you think they would have internet you would be thinking wrong
2) I have only been home from australia for 2 months and I have been out living it up with my friends, my old lady and my family...
3) the NHL playoffs
4) the NBA playoffs
5) My own baseball games and watching the toronto blue jays kick ace
6) I am playing on an ultimate frizbee team
7) Ryan Chisholm seems to think I am his replacement girlfriend...haha I love that douche bag
8) I have been writing script for the movie which is nearly complete
9) I have been writing songs for Tuesday's Revenge's first cd
10) I am in love with a girl that I could hang out with every minute possible
11) I have been working 2 jobs
12) I am lazy
umm yeah that should be sufficent for now

so onto more pressing matters...an acctual blog (this blog is dedicated to graham, jay, daneel, linner, em, keerstee and well me...cause I think those are the only peeps that acctually read the thing!...p.s. em sweet poem!)

The Worry Tactics

So I have now found out what it is like to truly worry about anothers every thoughts...and it is not cool. Rather than just being all up in your own head you try and figure out everything going on in thiers. yeah thats all I have to say about that...I hate it but at the same time I love it

Fights

Sometimes fights can be a really good thing. They air shit out, they clear things up and if you stick around once they are done everything seems that much better...that being said you don't want to constantly fight but you know 1 in a year is a good average

Little Richard

Man that guy is crazy...what show. I barely knew any of his songs but he had the crowd in an absolute frenzy and I was one of those frenzied peeps!

Buck 65

I like buck. old buck. he is a crowd pleaser. he knows his shit. but the odeon was to big of a venue for him and a lot of people are calling for flop...but I still enjoyed it

Warranties

well my warranty on my digital camera would be a lot more useful if it wasn't written in mandrin...hmmm this may be the downfall to buying in taiwan

The Second Sleeps

So you know those nights when you come home and go to sleep and then you wake up in the morning and you start to go back to sleep over and over rejoining your dreams where you left off...well I am talking about second sleeps where you get up and do something for a period consisting of 15 to 30 minutes. You know when you go back to eyes closed fetal position...thats when your mind races the most...I really think so cause you go back to trying to pick up your dreams where you left but they are now lost and then you start to think about absolutely everything and often it takes you longer to get to sleep than you acctually get to sleep for. So my recomendation for this is that you pick10 of the happiest moments of your life and write them down, put this list beside your bed and then before going back for a second sleep you read these 10 things and bam you have just created yourself thoughtless dreams!!

Music

so no computer has led to me not having any new music...I am going to start the trek again but I need people to leave me a bunch of suggestions in the comment area on some bands to check out

Cell Phone

Man I am so popular haha...I got a cell phone and I realized how annoying but awesome it is to be able to be reached anywhere at anytime

EDUCATION

so I got into the college of education and after 2 more years of school I will have to begin the search for employment in the real world...but I am overly joyed that it will be in the field I want and I truly believe now my life is gonna friggin rock!!

Unless you are sickingly happy...

so lately there has been lots of mentioning and talk of marriage. I went to a wedding, I have been invited to 3 more before the summer is over. People keep bringing up the topic of myself getting hitched right away (though I am happy enough I am 1 not old enough in my mind and 2 still in school). But I do have some thoughts on when to get married and to whom. I truly believe the only time you really should get married, tie the knot, plunge into a life long ball and chain commitment etc...the only time you should do this is when you are sickingly happy, I am talking the kind where if someone was there when it was just you and your signifcant other they would be sick to thier stomach and how happy you are, its when you honestly believe there is no person more beautiful than the one you are with, its when you could not imagine to have to live without this person, its when your friends say "I like so and so" and you just get this little knowing smile on that the approval is great but you didn't need it at all!!

yeah thats bout all I can muster for today I am gonna go outside and enjoy the amazing frickin weather

HAPPY CANADA DAY Y'ALL!!!